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10 Songs Guaranteed to Put a Smile on Your Face

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As the school year comes to a close, the reality of transferring schools has really hit me. The past few days have been incredibly hard as I have tried to put on a strong face for my friends. Although I am beyond excited for this new chapter in my life and am confident in my decision, it doesn’t make saying goodbye any easier.

In this difficult time, I’ve found comfort in music. While I write my blog posts, study for finals, or am packing up, I’ve been trying to play music that is good for my soul.

If you’re having a hard time right now or just want to listen to some music with uplifting messages, I recommend checking out these songs! I hope they help you as they’ve helped me or at the very least, put a smile on your face. Have a very happy Friday!









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Study Session Survival Guide

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“HOORAY! It’s finals season, my favorite!” – said no one ever.

Yeah, finals stink. I think the worst part about finals is just the boredom. Time seems to move so slowly when you’re stuck indoors and staring at a screen or textbook for hours on end. I definitely struggle with staying awake and focused during long study sessions, but I’ve found some tricks to help me keep on track!

Drink Constantly

Water, not alcohol. Calm down, guys. Seriously though, when you’re hydrated you will feel so much more alert. When you find your eyes glazing over or mind getting foggy, swap out that energy drink or soda for a big glass of H2O.

Take Breaks

For every 30 minutes of uninterrupted studying, take a 5-10 minute break. Doing these short bursts of  studying/resting/studying/resting will help you last much longer. Think of it like exercise – you build up stamina  better by pacing yourself. This is a marathon people, not a sprint.

Have Healthy Snacks

I’m guilty of binging on a whole bag of gummy bears while studying late at night. While I told myself eating this sugary snack kept me awake and focused, it really made me feel horrible in the long-run. Instead of munching on junk, find a healthy alternative. Swap Cheetos for pretzels, gummy worms for carrots, ice cream for peanut butter and celery, etc. You’ll feel much fuller and satisfied – your brain and stomach will thank you.

By no means do you have to completely deprive yourself of sweets – I highly recommend “rewarding” yourself every once in a while for working so hard!

Get Fresh Air

The library, your room, or wherever you’re studying can get awfully stuffy. When you take your 5-10 minute breaks, try to walk outside for a bit. Stretching your legs and filling your lungs with fresh air will help you feel rejuvenated. 

Listen to Some Good Tunes

While it’s tempting to listen to our favorite pump-up songs or even some calming acoustic stuff, listening to music with words can be extremely distracting. Even if we’re zoning it out a bit, our brain is still working as it listens to each word being sung. You’ll find yourself singing along without even knowing it. This kind of multitasking is detrimental.

On the other hand, I find it maddening to have complete silence – sometimes it’s even more distracting! So instead of jamming out to my favorite songs or sitting in utter silence, I play instrumental music. You can listen to instrumental covers of your favorite songs (trust me, you’d be surprised how many piano covers there are of “Gas Pedal” I kid you not).

Personally, I like listening to playlists like this or this while studying. Check out 8tracks.com – you can type in keywords like “instrumental” or “chill” and tons of pre-made playlists will pop up!

Make a To-Do List

This will help you stay on track with the tasks you have. It may seem a lot at first once you write it all out, but it will be so satisfying to check every item off the list.

What are your favorite study session tips?

Fashion Lifestyle

FΘRMAL 2014

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This past weekend was my final formal with the Eta Sigma chapter of Kappa Alpha Theta. (I will be transferring to the Alpha Sigma chapter in the fall at Washington State University) Very bittersweet, it was still a really fun event! I took my best friend, Selina as my date (taking your best friend is way less stressful than taking a guy!)

I’m wearing my favorite dress from TexasRoots Boutique, super cute wedges from Shop Hope’s (use the discount LYSSLIFEREP for 10% off your order at Hope’s!), and a statement necklace from Forever 21. I also have my amazing Luxy Hair extensions in!

Shoes (Sold out!) Similar here | Dress | Necklace | Luxy Hair Extensions 160g Dirty Blonde Set

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Flashback Friday: A Look Back at April

Look back at April

April went by so fast! I cannot believe it is May and I have two weeks of school left…it doesn’t seem real. I wanted to take today to reflect on the past month.

Favorite Moments in April
  1. Meeting Erin Condren and having her actually comment on my blog post! See it all here.
  2. Receiving an amazing care package from Charlotte Russe. See posts featuring the items from the care package here and here.
  3. Being featured on Charlotte Russe’s Instagram here.
  4. Stepping up my sponsorship opportunities and filling all of my sponsor spots.
  5. Collaboration with Allyssa from Life with Lyss. See it here.
  6. Reaching 900 followers on Twitter.
  7. Being published on the TEDxChapmanU blog here.
  8. My little sister committed to attending the University of Puget Sound in the Fall!
  9. My older sister decided on a wedding venue and date

It’s been a great month! I have so much going on in May – moving from California back to Washington, final exams, saying goodbye to all of my Chapman friends, and formal. I am excited, nervous, sad, stressed, and so happy all at the same time. It’s going to be a roller coaster for sure.

What were your favorite moments in April?
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My Natural Hair

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I can honestly say I am addicted to my hair extensions and well, my hair in general. If my hair does not look perfect, I feel like I’m having an off day. That being said, I have been trying really hard to embrace my natural hair lately. With the help of DevaCurl “no-poo” and conditioner, I have been able to fully embrace my mess of curls.

I wore my hair natural for the first time in a while yesterday and received so many compliments – I was shocked. Floored, actually. I could not believe that people loved something I was most self-conscious about! Sometimes, you have to just embrace your natural beauty and it will pay off big time. I’ve never felt more confident about my hair!

I encourage every woman reading this to think about what you are most self-conscious about your appearance. What do you do to alter it? Can you challenge yourself for ONE day to leave yourself 100% completely natural? I know it’s scary, but I think you will be surprised at how amazing you feel.

I love getting dolled up just as much as the next girl, trust me. It is just nice to take a break every once in a while to reflect.

Comment below if you challenged yourself to be “au naturale” or what your absolute FAVORITE aspect of your appearance is! ♥

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I Relay For My Mom

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relayMy favorite event of the year is coming up this weekend and I could not be more excited for it. Before coming to college, I had never been involved with Relay for Life which baffles me since my life has been significantly impacted by cancer. 2013 was my first year participating, and I can honestly say it changed my life.

Relay for Life provides a beautiful opportunity to honor the lives of those we have lost, support those currently battling, and celebrate those who have overcome cancer. Even if your life specifically has not been impacted by cancer, it is an amazing way to show solidarity and support. There is nothing easy about having somebody you love struggle with this ugly disease – it is truly terrifying. Events like Relay give us hope. It shows us that we are not alone and shows those struggling with cancer that they have an incredible support system. If we all fight this together, we can someday find the cure to ending all cases of cancer.

If you would like to make a donation to my Relay for Life team, the link is here. Any support is greatly appreciated.

I would love to hear your story of how cancer has impacted your life or anything that has helped you get through this difficult time! Please leave a comment so that we can be supports to each other.

If you would like to hear a little bit more about my story, please keep reading!

As many of you may know, my mom has skin cancer. Throughout the years, I have seen her battle this disease with such ferocity, courage, and patience. As her cancer is very widespread, she usually has some sort of treatment for it at least every two months or so. Somehow, she still manages to hold a full-time position as a second grade teacher, make my family dinner every night, and take care of everybody else. She is completely selfless – putting our family’s needs before her own. From endless surgeries, radiation, and many other intensive treatments, she keeps a positive attitude. She pushes through hardly ever complaining, and it just blows me away.

Sometimes her surgeons will tell her she needs to be off her feet for a week after a particularly difficult surgery and I will find her bustling around the house doing laundry, cleaning, and cooking for our family just a few days later. While this drives me crazy because I want her to rest as much as possible, I am also incredibly inspired by it. I am in awe of her strength and bravery everyday.

I do not want to share too much information about how else cancer has effected me in my life, but I will say I have known many people who have lost their lives to it. Those losses have impacted my life and the lives of those I care about dramatically.

I relay for my mom, grandma, Dave, and Denise. Who do you relay for?

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Meeting Erin Condren

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Erin Condren and I

I had the incredible privilege of not only hearing Erin Condren speak yesterday, but also meeting her in person. For those of you who do not know who she is, Erin Condren is the mastermind behind an incredible stationary and home/office supply company called Erin Condren Designs. Essentially, all of the products aim at helping customers live a more organized life – enabling them to be more productive and happy.

I have been obsessed with their life planners for a long time now and have always wanted more Erin Condren products than I can afford. I knew Erin was a powerful voice for women – especially young professionals – but I did not fully grasp to what extent until I heard her speak at an event held by Chapman University’s Delta Gamma chapter and Panhellenic Council.

Erin started off her talk with a story about a “contract” her and her friend created in Spanish class in high school. The contract essentially explained that Erin vowed to be a successful business woman with an equally successful husband and two healthy children by the time she was in her mid-thirties. This contract came with a concrete promise – that she would give her friend $500 if this were not to come true.

I cracked up at this because it sounds like something I would do. I have this plan for myself. Without diving into too many personal details, I want to have a stable and successful career, be married to the man of my dreams, and hopefully have a few kids by the time I’m in my mid-thirties. That plan is a little intimidating considering that is only about ten to fifteen years down the road…yikes!

Anyways, Erin goes on to explain how sometimes life does not always go how we plan and although we may have one idea of how our life will turn out, something will usually happen to change the course of our lives no matter what. I have been going through a phase lately where I am questioning whether or not I should be going into public relations. Well, not really questioning that, more just wondering how I can use that to help others. I also have found a passion for bullying prevention and women’s empowerment, so I have been struggling with how I can channel those two passions into a career.

Erin discussed how when you start out in the real world after graduation, sometimes the work that you do is not always easy or fun. She explains that the key is to be a “sponge.” It is your job to use each experience – even the negative ones – to benefit your development and to truly soak up everything you are learning. You might have a terrible summer internship or a nasty boss, but you have to harness that experience and use it for something that will benefit you.

One of the things she also emphasized was that when she started her business, she did not have a business plan or all of the skills required to start a company. She stressed the importance of asking for help – finding people who have those skills that you may lack. There is no shame in seeking help from others because if you try to do everything on your own, you will fail. A key part of this is finding  a powerful life partner that will be supportive and encouraging of you. That is far down the line for me, but it is definitely good to keep in mind.

Erin said that “nobody plans to fail, they just fail to plan.” I agree with this because anybody can have a great idea about how they want to change the world – it takes a certain person with a specific plan and enough determination to actually execute that idea in a successful and influential way.

As somebody with an entrepreneurial heart looking to start my own business and pave my own path, Erin’s story was incredibly encouraging. I felt relieved that I did not have everything planned out yet. I felt comforted by her story and humble beginnings. It gave me hope and encouraged me to think that maybe, just maybe, my dreams are not as scary as I think they are.

Between her clear joy in what she does and inspiring story, I am just blown away by Erin. I feel so grateful to have had the opportunity to hear her speak and meet her. I hope to one day be as gracious, successful, genuine, giving, and humble as she is.

Erin, if you ever read this (I would be so honored if you did!), I hope you know how much you have impacted me. Thank you for inspiring me and being an incredible example of a strong and powerful woman with a kind heart. I am forever grateful and genuinely hope our paths cross again soon. Until then, I will continue to write down my every task in my trusty planner. I am also much more productive and successful when I have an action-packed schedule and as cheesy as it sounds, your life planners have seriously changed the way I organize myself. I’m so sorry for completely fangirling over you. I just really appreciate everything you have done to encourage me. Thank you for everything, Erin!

Erin Condren

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Fashion Lifestyle

A Few Favorites

Charm and Gumption

Charm and Gumption Charm and GumptionMaybe because I love tea or cozy afternoons or just pretty things – but I LOVE cute mugs. Charm and Gumption has an abundance of adorable mugs with sayings like this one. There’s even one that says “What Would Beyoncé Do?” and other silly, inspirational, and pretty designs. Check it out – they have stationary, office supplies, cute prints, and more.

I’m also obsessed with my Rimmel London Moisture Renew Lipstick in “As You Want Victoria.” It’s the perfect shade for spring and actually hydrates your lips.

Finally, I really liked this copy of Cosmopolitan. It had a whole feature story about how to succeed more in all aspects of your life. I love when magazines like Cosmo surprise me like this – usually they’re full of dating tips and silly quizzes that will tell you what your kissing style is. It was a great article – I recommend checking it out!

 

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Healthy and Cheap College Food Essentials

Eating Healthy in College on a Budget

Eating Healthy in College on a Budget

It can be extremely difficult to eat healthy in college, so I’ve pulled together some of my favorite tips to share to make the process easier!

All of the items you see below were under $150 and can fit in my dorm shelf and mini fridge. I promise, eating healthy in college (even living in the dorms) is possible. I’m super busy all the time with two jobs, an internship, this blog, sorority life, and a full class schedule. If I can do it, you can do it!

Smoothie ingredients

Smoothie ingredientsMake a healthy snack or meal replacement with a quick and easy smoothie. Use almond milk for protein, frozen berries, a whole banana, a spoonful of almond butter, and a handful of spinach. I promise, you won’t taste the spinach AT ALL! It’s the easiest way to get a healthy serving of fruits and veggies.

Healthy snacks

Snack idea

I love tuna and crackers for a quick, protein-packed, snack!

Snack idea

Take these to-go packs of ranch and a Ziploc baggie of carrots when you’re on the run. It’s so easy to take these in the car, on the way to class, or for your lunch at work.

Snack

I always crave fresh fruit while I’m at college. Unfortunately, most dining halls do a terrible job at providing fresh fruits or veggies. Berries go bad pretty quickly, but I’ve found grapes to last a little longer. They’re also easy to just throw in a Ziploc bag and take with you – no slicing necessary.

Two go-to lunch/dinner options

Lunch/dinner

You can make little roll-up sandwiches super quickly by spreading on some cream cheese, layering on turkey and spinach, and then rolling it all up. I take these in little bags for my lunch at work. They’re filling and delicious.

Lunch/dinner

I’m not vegan, but I am obsessed with these vegan chicken patties. They are SO good! They taste like chicken nuggets while still being healthy somehow. I have a huge stash of about four of these boxes in my freezer because I eat them so much. I love throwing a patty and some instant brown rice into a Tupperware for lunch at work. You can just put it in the microwave for a minute and everything is hot and ready to eat!

At least one breakfast option

Breakfast

I honestly cannot stress the importance of breakfast enough. Especially for college-aged kids – we need fuel in the morning. So many of us are running off to class and then work and then other clubs/activities and then finally working on homework. Since we can’t always rely on being well-rested in the mornings, our bodies crave fuel. Make sure you have one breakfast staple on hand. I like having yogurt with some protein-packed cereal – you can easily plop some into a paper bowl and take it on the go if you need. EAT BREAKFAST! Your body will thank you.

Super quick microwave meals

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Yeah, I know. This isn’t ideal. However, eating something is much better than eating nothing. We all know that Easy Mac and Cup-O-Noodles isn’t the best choice for our bodies. I’ve found Annie’s organic mac n’ cheese and Barilla’s pastas to be the best alternatives. Sometimes, we are just too tired to even think about making ourselves something healthier. Trust me, the idea of just heating something up always sounds appealing. Just make sure when you do eat these quick, microwavable meals that it’s not all the time and they’re not completely terrible for you.

 

One thing you can make that feels like a “real” meal

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Cooking in the dorms is virtually impossible. However, I have found there are a few creative ways that you can whip together something that resembles a “real” home-cooked meal. I use a hot pot (like this one) to boil water. Once the water is boiled, I add in quinoa and olive oil. Quinoa is so versatile, but I love putting lime juice, corn, black beans, tomato, and avocado in it. A light and healthy meal, it doesn’t take that much time to make but let’s you feel like you’re actually cooking. I usually make a medium sized batch of this and put it in containers for lunches for the rest of the week. To hear more about the recipe, check out my other post here.

 

Your favorite goodies

Goodies

Yep, you’re allowed to pig-out every once in a while. Having some of your favorite goodies on hand allows you to feel comfortable and like you’re not completely depriving yourself. I really think it’s important to have some of your favorite things nearby especially if you’re feeling down or homesick.

A few more tips:
  • Pack snacks in Ziploc bags for portion control
  • Never eat in bed
  • Don’t eat while watching TV or when you’re bored
  • Put smoothie ingredients in Ziplocs and store them in the freezer – the fresh spinach and fruits will last much longer
  • Almond milk can be stored on your shelf until you open it. After that, put it in your fridge
  • Drink green tea in the morning. Put lemon and Stevia in it
  • Drink water!
  • Don’t drink energy drinks
  • Brush your teeth right after dinner. You’ll be less tempted to late-night snack once your teeth are clean

 

Was this helpful for you? What are your go-to healthy college foods?